Your Journey to Healing and Extraordinary Love Starts Here

At Love With Intelligence, we empower high-achieving women to break free from toxic patterns, heal deeply from past emotional wounds, and build healthy, lasting relationships. Whether you’re recovering from emotional abuse or ready to find the right partner, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.

Our unique approach combines emotional healing, emotional intelligence, and personalised strategies to help you not only transform your love life but also rediscover your confidence and sense of self. Love isn’t just something you find—it’s something you create, and we’re here to show you how.

Hi, I’m Lily Walford.

Hi, I’m Lily—your guide to healing, growth, and lasting love.

For years, I’ve worked with incredible women who’ve achieved so much in their careers and lives but struggled to find the kind of love they truly deserve. I know how painful it can feel to be stuck in toxic patterns, questioning your worth and wondering if healthy, lasting love is possible.

Like you, I’ve faced those moments of doubt—but I also discovered the power of healing deeply, mastering emotional intelligence, and aligning with a love life that feels extraordinary. That’s why I created The Love IQ Method and the Loved Up Program—to give women like you the tools, support, and strategies to reclaim your power and build the relationship you deserve.

My Approach

Holistic Approach: We focus on healing the past, building emotional intelligence, and creating actionable dating strategies.

  • Personalised Guidance: No cookie-cutter advice—everything is tailored to your unique journey.

  • Proven Results: Our clients have broken free from toxic patterns, rediscovered their confidence, and built meaningful, lasting relationships.

  • A Safe Space: You’ll find empathy, support, and expertise here—no judgment, just transformation


Who We Help

Our work is designed for high-achieving women aged 30–45 who are:

  • Recovering from emotional abuse or toxic relationships.

  • Tired of repeating unhealthy patterns in love.

  • Ready to heal, grow, and find a meaningful, compatible partner.

  • Committed to creating a love life that reflects their worth and dreams.


Your Next Step

You don’t have to face this journey alone. Whether you’re ready to heal, rebuild your confidence, or find the love you’ve always deserved, Love With Intelligence is here to help.

Are you ready to transform your love life?