Real Stories of Transformation

See How Lives Have Been Changed with Love With Intelligence

Love With Intelligence has supported hundreds of professionals to heal, grow, and find meaningful relationships. Here, we celebrate their journeys of self-discovery and connection. Explore their stories, comments, and feedback to see what’s possible for you

We met on an app. We went on our first date and now we are married!

This was all possible because of Lily!! I was struggling to meet the right person for a while and at one point had all the datings apps on, it felt like a full time job screening and vetting potential dates.

A while back, I had a very traumatic experience at work which was never resolved and never had counselling for so was subconsciously holding that in the whole time. Lily helped me to unblock those unresolved issues in a single powerful session and I felt the weight lifted immediately.

We learnt about narcisissist red flags in dating profiles which has helped me going forward not only in dating but also in work relationships what to look out for in people.

Our work together has helped to change my whole mindset and outlook in life for the better in what to look out for not just in love relationships but also friends and business relations. If you’ve been on the fence debating about whether to get a dating coach or do the healing work I would highly recommend Lily as she has helped me so much with her guidance, wisdom, patience and understanding that our sessions have been life changing and i’m forever grateful to her for this new and exciting chapter in life that we’ve just started!

Victoria - London

Working with Lily has been nothing short of transformative—

I cannot say enough good things about working with Lily. Working with her is such a breath of fresh and authentic air. 

What I especially enjoyed with Lily was, in contrast to the more traditional talk therapy that I've experienced, I got her honest feedback and responses to my ideas and thoughts. I wasn't left to sort out my questions on my own, instead I was able to include her input or recommendations (or not) with my own solutions. Often, with her feedback, I was able to quickly and quite clearly understand where my thoughts were off-base or simply no longer serving me well, allowing me to move forward with my desired transformation much more efficiently than through the therapy I had before. 

Lily has the amazing ability of very clearly understanding where you are emotionally and mentally without you having to do a lot of explanation of your personal history to help her understand who you are. Her intelligence and humor helped guide me out of my own morass of negative thoughts and outlook and within just a few weeks, I was able to get back to living my life with excitement and energy again. I never felt judged or criticized. Lily was always supportive, understanding, and empathetic. I felt like I was doing this work with a peer instead of a parent or professor, which made it so much more enjoyable, even when we had a tough session. 

Our conversations were always so inspiring and thought-provoking. She was very generous with her time and I got so much out of my time working with her. Her energy and passion for this kind of work is infectious.

Pamela - Florida

Healing From A Toxic Relationship To Finding Love

I have to be honest…I never ever thought I would have agreed to work with a Relationship and Dating Coach. But to say my life changed when I came across Lily and Love with Intelligence is an understatement. 

I initially heard about Lily by chance after listening to a Podcast with someone I know through work, mainly out of curiosity. I was then passed on details of a Zoom training session one Saturday night after which I registered for a 45-minute consultation. 

I was completely blown away not only by how lovely Lily is but how knowledgeable she is. I felt so comfortable chatting with her and there was no hesitation around signing up for an opportunity to work with her. 

I found the initial set of questions probing and thought provoking but it gave me an opportunity to really explore what I believed my worth to be after being in an emotionally destructive and somewhat abusive relationship for 5 years. Although the relationship ended almost 3 years ago, I still felt drained and hurt by it. Through speaking to Lily I was able to see how unhealthy this relationship was and how I guess I needed to get over it in order to move forward. Lily gave me so many tools and helped me shake off the pain and misery I felt. 

I really looked forward to my sessions with Lily – tbh it felt more like I was speaking to a friend. I felt so comfortable sharing my feelings and history around past doomed relationships. I have learnt so much about myself as a result of these sessions. I know what my worth is and I will never accept any type of relationship if I don’t feel comfortable or if it causes me to compromise my worth, values or morals. I have also gained a new interest in learning more about body language and behaviour profiling. 

I can’t thank Lily enough…it really was a cathartic experience but I am now ready to embark on and embrace a new journey where I will never accept anyone who is not loyal, honest, reliable and respectful. 

Thank you xx


Roisin McGarry - Belfast

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